Morphine May 7, 2012
Posted by ijwoods in Blog+.Tags: caregiving, dying at home, hospice, hospice and palliative care, morphine, palliative care, providing comfort
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Taking time to understand the process of dying may help you avoid going into full panic mode as your loved one moves through unfamiliar behavior patterns. But doing some research about the use of morphine during palliative care may save you from potential grief, guilt and long lasting personal trauma.
In the first meetings with our hospice representative we learned about palliative care including the use of narcotics to relieve pain. We learned that if the pain became greater than what the lower grade pain-releivers could manage we might have to escalate all the way up to morphine. Our representative wanted to make sure we understood and were okay with this.
My initial reaction was that I wanted K to be as conscious as possible during her final days and I wasn’t sure if morphine would allow her that privilege. On the other hand I most certainly didn’t want her to suffer with extreme pain. I wasn’t settled, but rather than impose my thoughts I waited for K’s reaction. She agreed that the morphine would be preferable, if ever needed. I went along knowing K didn’t make decisions like this lightly. It was obvious to me afterwards that she had already thought this through. (more…)
There’s No Spice Like Hospice April 29, 2012
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I can’t remember how many years I’ve said to friends, including K, that when it comes to dying I’m going to do it at home or in some desolate cabin in the forest. The thought behind those statements never went very deep and was always based on some romantic image I have of being alone, peacefully going within, uniting with God and never returning. I know I’m not the only one with those sentiments since I’ve heard it from quite a number of other people as well, sans the uniting with God bit. But now having lived through an EOL experience at home I have a more complete picture, particularly for the longer term situations. I still feel the same way about dying at home, and maybe even more so, but realize that some preparation and realities are in order. (more…)
Hospice vs Palliative Care March 11, 2012
Posted by ijwoods in Blog+.Tags: hospice, hospice and palliative care, palliative care
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I realized after finishing the last post that I wasn’t clear about the differences between hospice care and palliative care. In looking for definitions I ended up at that wonderful site called the Caregivers Library, noted in the resource list. They have a very good section on this very subject called Hospice vs. Palliative Care. The section is not a showdown between the two but a thorough explanation as to what each one does, when, where and how. Here’s their general definition:
“The differences between hospice and palliative care.
Hospice care and palliative care are very similar when it comes to the most important issue for dying people: care. Most people have heard of hospice care and have a general idea of what services hospice provides. What they don’t know or what may become confusing is that hospice provides “palliative care,” and that palliative care is both a method of administering “comfort” care and increasingly, an administered system of palliative care offered most prevalently by hospitals. As an adjunct or supplement to some of the more “traditional” care options, both hospice and palliative care protocols call for patients to receive a combined approach where medications, day-to-day care, equipment, bereavement counseling, and symptom treatment are administered through a single program. Where palliative care programs and hospice care programs differ greatly is in the care location, timing, payment, and eligibility for services.”
I recommend reading the entire section for further detail: Hospice vs. Palliative Care
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